One of the first authors I read in the paranormal romance genre is also classified as erotic. Judy Mays.
In her day job she is a high school teacher. She does a great job of keeping the two careers separate.
Well, recently someone exposed her pen name to the parents of her students and they in turn told the local news. You can see the article here.
Make sure to read the comments. One of Judy's sons even made a comment. I like it.
And I have found a couple of other blog posts about the subject here and here.
There is also a page on Facebook for supporting Judy. Here's the link to that.
Support Judy Mays
I like the way the romance community is coming together to support Judy during all this.